Between ages 4 and 5, children's communication begins to take on many of the features associated with school-age language.
Sentences become longer. Stories become easier to follow. Children explain what happened during their day, describe where objects are located, talk about past and future events, negotiate rules during play, and begin paying closer attention to the sounds and printed forms of words.
At the same time, a 4-year-old is not simply a smaller version of a 5-year-old. A great deal of language, speech, social communication, and early literacy development occurs across this year.
The American Speech-Language-Hearing Association (ASHA) places a range of skills within the 4-to-5-year developmental period, including increasingly complex grammar, early story structure, irregular plurals, spatial and temporal language, game rules, letter knowledge, rhyming, early writing, and increasingly accurate speech production.
The Centers for Disease Control and Prevention (CDC) separates its guidance into milestones expected by age 4 and milestones expected by age 5. Its current milestone system includes skills that 75% or more of children are expected to demonstrate by a particular age and is intended for developmental monitoring rather than diagnosis.
These two approaches are complementary. ASHA describes development across an age range, while CDC identifies selected skills at specific birthdays.
Neither should be treated as a test that a child must pass.
A child's speech and language development is better understood by looking at the pattern across several areas: sentence development, vocabulary, understanding, storytelling, conversation, speech production, phonological awareness, and early literacy.
Communication Milestones From Ages 4 to 5 at a Glance
| Area | What Often Develops Between Ages 4 and 5 |
|---|---|
| Sentence structure | Longer sentences with increasingly mature grammar |
| Vocabulary | More specific words, categories, comparisons, spatial concepts, and time words |
| Storytelling | Characters, settings, connected events, and increasingly organized narratives |
| Conversation | Longer exchanges, questions, explanations, topic maintenance, and repair |
| Understanding | Better comprehension of stories, directions, concepts, and increasingly complex language |
| Social communication | Following game rules, taking turns, negotiating play, talking about feelings |
| Speech sounds | Most consonants produced accurately; speech increasingly understandable |
| Phonological awareness | Recognizing rhymes and beginning to manipulate parts of words |
| Print knowledge | Recognizing letters, understanding book orientation, beginning name writing |
| Early writing | Writing some letters and experimenting with conventional print direction |
ASHA's current 4-to-5-year guidance includes all of these areas, while CDC's age-4 and age-5 milestone lists show how several of them develop across the year.
What Should a 4-Year-Old Be Saying?
By the fourth birthday, children are typically communicating in sentences rather than relying primarily on short phrases.
CDC identifies sentences containing four or more words as a language milestone by age 4. Children at this age also commonly talk about at least one event from their day, repeat words from familiar songs or stories, and answer simple questions about the functions of common objects.
A 4-year-old might say:
“We played soccer outside today.”
“I need the red one because mine is broken.”
“She is hiding behind the couch.”
“Can I have another piece after dinner?”
The significance is not the precise number of words in each sentence. It is the increasing ability to combine vocabulary, grammar, concepts, and information into a coherent message.
During the year between 4 and 5, those sentences tend to become longer and syntactically more varied.
What Should a 5-Year-Old Be Saying?
By age 5, conversation and storytelling take another step forward.
CDC's current age-5 communication milestones include telling a story with at least two connected events, answering simple questions about a story, maintaining a conversation for more than three back-and-forth exchanges, and recognizing or producing simple rhymes.
A 5-year-old may be able to tell you:
“We went outside, but it started raining, so our teacher said we had to come back in.”
That sentence contains several linguistic advances at once: past tense, a conjunction, causal information, multiple events, and an explanation of why one event followed another.
This is the broader pattern seen during the preschool years. Language becomes less dependent on what is happening directly in front of the child and increasingly capable of describing events that occurred somewhere else, happened earlier, or may happen later.
Sentences Become Longer and Grammatically More Complex
ASHA identifies increasingly long, complex, and grammatically appropriate sentences as a characteristic of the 4-to-5-year period.
At this age, children are using a much larger grammatical system than they were only a year or two earlier.
They may increasingly use:
conjunctions to connect ideas: “I wanted to go outside, but it was raining.”
causal language:
“She cried because she hurt her knee.”
embedded information:
“The girl who has the red hat is my friend.”
future and past references:
“We are going to Grandma's house tomorrow.”
comparatives:
“This tower is taller than that one.”
The shift from simple sentences to increasingly complex syntax is gradual. Research following children from prekindergarten into elementary school shows that grammar continues to develop well beyond the preschool years rather than reaching a finished state at age 5.
Recent neurodevelopmental research also demonstrates measurable development in morphosyntax between ages 3 and 5, with 4- and 5-year-olds showing more advanced grammatical processing than younger preschoolers.
So when ASHA refers to “grammatically correct sentences,” parents should not interpret that to mean that every sentence must sound exactly like adult speech.
Occasional errors can still occur as children learn increasingly complex structures.
The broader expectation is that grammar is becoming increasingly stable, varied, and productive.
Irregular Plurals Begin Appearing More Reliably
One small but revealing language milestone is the use of irregular plurals.
Children learn fairly early that many English nouns become plural by adding -s:
cat → cats
dog → dogs
book → books
But English also contains forms that do not follow that regular rule:
foot → feet
man → men
mouse → mice
child → children
ASHA identifies the use of at least one irregular plural form, such as feet or men, within the 4-to-5-year developmental range.
Children may still occasionally regularize an irregular word and say something such as:
“foots”
or
“mans.”
Such errors can reflect active grammatical learning. The child has identified the regular plural rule and applied it to a word that happens to be an exception.
Preschool grammar should therefore be considered as a developing system rather than a collection of words that children either know or do not know.
Vocabulary Growth Becomes More Conceptual
Vocabulary development does not stop once a child can name hundreds or thousands of objects.
Between ages 4 and 5, children increasingly learn relationships among words and ideas.
They begin organizing vocabulary into categories:
apple, banana, strawberry → fruit
chair, couch, table → furniture
circle, triangle, square → shapes
They can also begin explaining why something does or does not belong: “The dog doesn't belong because the others are farm animals.”
This type of task requires vocabulary, category knowledge, comparison, and verbal reasoning.
ASHA recommends category sorting and “which one doesn't belong?” activities for this age precisely because they encourage children to explain relationships rather than simply label objects.
By age 4, CDC also expects many children to answer simple questions about what familiar objects are used for—for example, explaining that a crayon is used for coloring.
These skills become increasingly relevant in school, where children are expected to define, classify, compare, explain, and describe rather than only identify.
Spatial Language Expands
Children in the 3-to-4-year period commonly develop concepts such as in, on, and under.
Between 4 and 5, ASHA identifies more advanced location words, including:
behind
beside
between
Parents may also hear increasing use of relational concepts such as:
first / last
right / left
above / below
near / far
Spatial language is not simply vocabulary for describing where toys are.
It is closely related to children's developing ability to represent spatial relationships.
Experimental research with 4-year-olds has shown that exposure to spatial language during play can improve children's performance on spatial-thinking tasks. In one set of studies, preschoolers who participated in play accompanied by spatial language subsequently performed better on mental-rotation tasks than children who completed play activities without the same language emphasis.
More recent longitudinal work has similarly found associations between the complexity of parents' spatial language and gains in preschoolers' spatial skills from ages 4 to 5.
This makes ordinary activities useful places to introduce the vocabulary naturally: “Put the block between the two towers.”
“The car is behind the garage.”
“Which animal is standing beside the horse?”
There is no need to turn these interactions into drills.
Repeated use within play gives the words a concrete reference.
Understanding Time Words Is Still Developing
Time words such as yesterday and tomorrow deserve particular attention.
ASHA lists more accurate use of time words such as yesterday and tomorrow within the 4-to-5-year range. CDC similarly lists time words such as yesterday, tomorrow, morning, and night among cognitive milestones by age 5.
However, preschool children's understanding of these words is still developing.
Temporal words are unusually abstract because their meaning changes depending on when they are spoken.
Yesterday today is not the same calendar day as yesterday tomorrow.
Research with preschoolers has shown that children generally understand yesterday more easily than tomorrow and that reasoning about future time can remain difficult during this age period.
A 2025 study of 3- to 5-year-olds also examined how children use grammatical information to learn the meanings of yesterday and tomorrow, reinforcing that these concepts are actively developing during the preschool period rather than being instantly mastered.
A 4- or 5-year-old may therefore use these words frequently while occasionally confusing them.
Parents can support temporal language through ordinary routines: “Yesterday we went swimming. Today we're staying home. Tomorrow you go back to school.”
Calendars, family plans, photographs, and conversations about recent events give abstract time words a concrete context.
Storytelling Becomes More Organized Between Ages 4 and 5
Storytelling is one of the largest areas of growth during this period.
ASHA describes 4- to 5-year-olds as increasingly including main characters, settings, connected information, and ideas when telling stories. Children also begin using words such as and to link events.
CDC shows how this skill progresses.
By age 4, many children can talk about something that happened during their day and tell what comes next in a familiar story.
By age 5, many can tell a story they heard or made up that contains at least two events and can answer simple questions about a story after hearing it.
That does not mean a 5-year-old is expected to produce a fully developed school-age narrative.
ASHA's social communication benchmarks describe narratives at ages 4–5 as often consisting of sequences of events that may not yet have a fully organized central theme. More mature causal story organization continues developing during the school years.
Research supports this gradual progression.
In a study of 237 children between ages 4 and 7, story-retelling ability improved across successive age groups. Vocabulary, phonological awareness, morphological awareness, and pragmatic ability contributed to children's narrative performance.
Another study of 336 children ages 3–6 found wide individual variation in narrative ability and showed that vocabulary, grammar, and phonological awareness contributed to storytelling performance in different ways depending on the child's narrative level.
Narrative skill therefore draws on much more than imagination.
To tell a story, a child has to select relevant information, sequence events, use vocabulary, construct sentences, maintain a topic, consider what the listener already knows, and connect events in a way that another person can follow.
How Parents Can Build Storytelling Skills
One of the simplest approaches is to talk about experiences that already happened.
Instead of asking: “Did you have fun at school?”
which invites a yes/no answer, try: “Tell me what happened when you went outside.”
If the child says: “We played.”
you might continue: “Who did you play with?”
and then: “What happened next?”
This provides some structure without telling the story for the child.
Family photographs can work the same way. Ask who was there, where the picture was taken, what happened first, and what happened afterward.
Books offer another route. CDC recommends asking 4-year-olds what is happening in a story and what they think might happen next. ASHA similarly recommends prediction, acting out stories, puppet shows, drawing scenes, and asking who, what, when, where, and why questions.
These are stronger language activities than simply asking a child to recite a memorized story.
Prediction and Inference Begin to Expand
A child who understands a story does more than remember exactly what the author said.
They also begin figuring out information that was implied.
If a picture shows a child holding a broken umbrella while standing in a puddle, the listener may infer that it has been raining even if the book never says so directly.
Research shows that inferential comprehension begins developing well before school age and improves rapidly during the preschool period.
A study of 121 typically developing children between ages 3 and 6 found age-related growth in narrative inference, including children's ability to infer story problems, characters' internal responses, and likely predictions.
A more recent longitudinal study following children from 3½ to 5½ years also documented substantial growth in oral inferential comprehension, with particularly strong development between approximately 3½ and 4½ years.
This gives parents another reason to move beyond factual questions when reading.
Instead of asking only:
“What color is the boy's coat?”
you can occasionally ask:
“Why do you think he put his coat on?”
or:
“What do you think she will do next?”
The goal is conversation, not testing every page.
Conversation Is Longer and More Flexible
A preschooler's communication at age 4 or 5 is no longer limited to responding to adults.
Children increasingly initiate conversations, maintain topics, negotiate play, explain what they want, ask for clarification, and modify what they say when another person does not understand.
By age 5, CDC identifies maintaining a conversation for more than three back-and-forth exchanges as a communication milestone.
ASHA's social communication benchmarks describe additional growth during ages 4–5, including indirect requests, increasing discussion of emotions and feelings, more sophisticated pretend play, and an emerging understanding that another person can have beliefs or knowledge different from one's own.
For example, rather than saying: “Give me that.”
a child might begin saying: “Could I have that when you're finished?”
During pretend play, children may negotiate increasingly complex roles: “You be the doctor, and I'll be the mom, but first the baby has to go to the hospital.”
This type of interaction combines language, perspective taking, planning, and social negotiation.
Following Rules During Games Is Also a Communication Skill
ASHA includes the ability to follow simple directions and rules during games within the 4-to-5-year range. CDC similarly identifies following rules or taking turns during games as a milestone by age 5.
Board games are particularly useful because they create natural reasons to understand language such as:
before
after
first
next
your turn
my turn
move two spaces
pick another card
They also require children to listen to peers, wait, ask questions, repair misunderstandings, and adapt when the outcome is not what they expected.
This is why board games are especially useful at this age.
The language is embedded in a real social activity rather than presented as an isolated exercise.
Speech Should Be Increasingly Understandable—but Not Perfect
Speech development and language development should be considered separately.
A child may have sophisticated ideas and grammar but still make errors on some speech sounds.
ASHA's current 4-to-5-year guidance states that children in this range generally produce most consonants correctly and are understandable in conversation.
NIDCD similarly describes children ages 4–5 as producing most speech sounds correctly while some later-developing sounds may still be inaccurate.
This is more accurate than the old rule often repeated online that a 4-year-old must be “100% intelligible.”
Objective research shows considerably more variation.
Hustad and colleagues studied 538 typically developing children between 30 and 119 months using unfamiliar adult listeners who transcribed what the children said. For multiword speech, children reached 75% intelligibility across an age range of approximately 46–61 months, depending on percentile, while 90% intelligibility was reached across a much broader range of approximately 62–87 months.
Their earlier research likewise found that only a small number of typically developing children approached 100% intelligibility by 47 months and that speech clarity continued developing beyond age 4.
The practical expectation is therefore not perfect pronunciation.
By ages 4–5, conversation should generally be understandable, while some sound errors may remain.
What Speech Concerns Deserve a Closer Look?
An occasional sound error is quite different from a child whose speech is routinely difficult to understand.
Consider discussing speech with an SLP when a preschooler's speech is markedly less understandable than expected, many different words collapse into similar sound patterns, errors significantly interfere with conversation, the child avoids speaking because others do not understand, or speech development appears to have stopped progressing.
A comprehensive speech-sound evaluation examines far more than whether individual sounds are correct.
ASHA recommends analysis of speech in both single words and connected speech, along with error patterns, intelligibility, phonological patterns, stimulability, and other relevant factors.
Early Literacy Development Accelerates From Ages 4 to 5
Some of the most striking changes during this period involve emergent literacy.
Emergent literacy refers to the knowledge and skills that develop before conventional reading and writing.
ASHA's 4-to-5-year milestones include:
locating the front of a book and its title, recognizing and naming 10 or more letters, usually being able to write one's name, imitating left-to-right reading and writing, blending parts of compound words, and identifying some rhyming words.
CDC uses a somewhat more conservative birthday-based framework. By age 5, its milestones include writing some letters in one's name, naming some letters when shown, and using or recognizing simple rhymes.
The difference should not be interpreted as disagreement.
ASHA describes skills across the entire 4-to-5-year developmental range, whereas CDC intentionally selects milestones that at least 75% of children are expected to demonstrate by a specific birthday.
Writing a Name Is More Than a Fine-Motor Task
When a preschooler begins writing their name, several systems are coming together.
The child has to recognize that spoken language can be represented visually, know some of the letters associated with their name, remember their sequence, distinguish individual letter shapes, and produce those forms with sufficient motor control.
Research with 296 preschool children ages 4–5 found that print knowledge and letter-writing abilities contributed to name-writing performance. Letter writing also predicted early spelling development.
Parents do not need to demand perfect handwriting.
A child's early name may contain oversized letters, reversals, uneven spacing, or approximations.
Those early attempts are part of learning how spoken and written language are related.
Rhyming and Playing With Word Parts
Around ages 4–5, children also become more aware that words can be examined as sound structures, not only as carriers of meaning.
ASHA identifies recognizing rhymes such as:
cat / hat
and blending word parts such as:
cup + cake → cupcake
CDC also includes recognition or production of simple rhymes among age-5 communication milestones.
These abilities fall under the broader umbrella of phonological awareness.
Later phonological-awareness abilities include recognizing syllables, identifying first sounds, blending individual speech sounds, and segmenting words into sounds.
They develop over time rather than appearing all at once.
A longitudinal study beginning when children were approximately 4 years 9 months old found that letter knowledge and phoneme sensitivity predicted later word-recognition development, while vocabulary and grammar contributed to later reading comprehension.
A large body of emergent literacy research similarly distinguishes code-related skills, such as print knowledge and phonological awareness, from broader oral-language abilities that later contribute heavily to comprehension.
This is why preschool communication development and literacy development should not be treated as separate subjects.
Oral Language Is Part of the Foundation for Reading
Learning letter names is valuable, but kindergarten readiness is not simply knowing the alphabet.
Children also arrive at school with different levels of:
- vocabulary;
- grammatical knowledge;
- listening comprehension;
- narrative ability;
- phonological awareness;
- print knowledge; and
- background knowledge.
A longitudinal study following more than 1,100 children from age 3 through third grade found that oral language considered broadly—including grammar, vocabulary, and semantic knowledge—provided a stronger foundation for early reading than vocabulary alone.
Other longitudinal research has similarly shown that preschool oral-language and code-related abilities follow somewhat different pathways into later reading. Print knowledge and phonological awareness are especially associated with early word reading, while broader oral language increasingly contributes to reading comprehension.
The preschool years therefore involve two related developments:
learning how print represents spoken language
and
building the oral language needed to understand what will eventually be read.


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